Have you ever been faced with an issue while reading or blogging and thought: I wonder what other bloggers think about this? No matter what genre or audience you blog for, we all face the same problems. Are you a publisher or author wondering what goes on in a blogger's (and by extension a reader's) head?
Blogger confidential is a series of 10 questions asked to 13 bloggers about the nitty gritty details of blogging. Everything from what prompts a blogger to pick up a book, to what happens when a book doesn't live up to its hype. This series was inspired by
Wastepaper Prose's Author Insight series. Learn more about the Blogger Confidential series
on its main page.
Do you ever have blogger envy? How do you handle it?
"Of course, who doesn’t? Just recently we were envious off all our fellow book bloggers who made it down to ALA. But you soon realize that you can’t do anything and you move on and add it to your list to try and do next year. But once you realize it’s about promoting books and the authors and it’s not about you as the blogger/reviewer then the envy goes away a bit."
Pixie and Stacey from Page Turners Blog
"I envy the US bloggers who get sent all of these amazing ARC’s that I can’t get my hands on, mostly because they haven’t been released in the UK yet and the majority of US publishers will not send books out of the country for cost reasons which I totally understand. Thankfully, there are a lot of kind bloggers out there who will send you a book if they know you are desperate to read it (although getting my hands on Lola and the Boy Next Door is proving pretty difficult!) and I too have done this for bloggers - what I love about this community is its willingness to share with each other."
Lynsey from Narratively Speaking
"All the time!!!! Our usual cure is befriending said blogger! We *heart* bloggers."
Stacy, Shannan, Nancy, and Sarah from Girls in the Stacks
"Of course I have blogger envy. Anyone who says they have never been envious of another blogger's books, is lying. No offense. I handle it the same way you would handle any other type of envy. I look at what I have and I just be grateful for that. And if that doesn't work I pick up one of the books I have been dying to read and distract myself. Haha."
Katie from Katie's Book Blog
"I can say I don't. I celebrate all the blogs out there in some shape or form. I think we all deserve a pat on the back for all our hard work."
Yara from Once Upon a Twilight
"Hmmm... I don't know if I would call it blogger envy. Maybe blogger inspiration? If I see someone who has a very successful blog, it inspires me to try to make my blog better."
Wallace from Unputdownables
"YES. All the time! I handle it like this- 1) Comment on the person's blog saying 'OMG SO JEALOUS!!!' 2) Forget about it an hour later and move on with my life, or contact my publicist to ask for a copy, lol. Most of the time, I just forget about it because I'm focusing on the books I received that week or the book I'm reading at that time or, you know, I'm off living my life! There's no point in holding on to the envy, which is something to remember when the envy doesn't involve In My Mailbox posts. For some reason, I was only thinking about that aspect. Just be happy with what you have and continue working hard on your blog to increase your followers, comments, or whatever."
James from Book Chic
"Yes. Do I have it as much as others, I don’t think I do. I think it’s hard sometimes to not become jealous when you see many bloggers getting many ARCs(which I think most of the jealousy stems from) sent to them on a regular base including ones they haven’t themselves requested and bloggers being including in special blog tours. For me, I love ARCs and being able to read a book early, but at the same time, I don’t love the pressure of HAVING to read certain books by a certain date. If I really wanted ARCs more, I could request the titles I wanted, but I have yet to do that really. There are other ways of going about being able to read an advanced copy, ARC tours are one way of doing this. In my mind, I know I will eventually be able to read the title by either buying it or checking it out from the library."
Jacinda and Jasmine from The Reading Housewives of Indiana
"Not really :)! I’m happy where I am as a blogger!"
Jenn from Jenn's Bookshelves
"Sure. Doesn’t everybody? But generally I use “blogger envy” as motivation to keep working on my own site. It’s inspiration to work harder, try new things, reach out to new people, etc."
Sara from Novel Novice
"Not really. Sometimes I am envious that another blogger has a book before me if it’s one that I’m really excited about. Then, I just remind myself that I will eventually be able to get a copy and I realize there is no reason to be envious. Otherwise, I don’t compare my blog to anyone else’s because we are all so unique."
Melina from Reading Vacation
"Oh heck yes! I mean who doesn't? Sure it's stupid, I'll admit it, but I'm only human! I usually get blogger envy over books... and I handle it by reminding myself that I have plenty of books to read in my reading pile, and to stop whining!"
Kristi from The Story Siren
"OH YES. As I’ve gotten older the severity of my blogger envy has lessened, but it’s certainly still there. I’ll go to a blog that has gained 3,000 followers in a few months and I can’t help but try to pick the blog apart. “They promote anything, even if it’s garbage,” and blah blah blah. The very nasty side of me comes out when my blogger envy rears its head.
I’ve gotten a lot better at handling it ever since I set my priorities for my blog. Is it my goal to have 3,000 followers? Do I want publishers to send me free iPads? Is that all I want? The simple answer is: no. I want a blog that attracts people that will help me grow as a blogger and a reader. I’m not going to promote everything and anything to gain followers because I only want to interact with people who like what I like. That’s what’s most important TO ME. If you’re happy with your blog, you won’t be envious. If you aren’t happy: fix it!"
Enna from Squeaky Books